So I can be a little unorthodox from time to time (lol), but let me tell you something I learned recently:

I need help.

So…yeah.

I spoke with my mentor the other day and she dealt a blow that hit right in the diaphragm and knocked all of the hot air out of me!! I couldn’t even argue with her because it was true.  In my mind, I was already five years down the line, thinking I had a stacks in the bank and was able to take on ten mini projects WHILE providing for my son solo and being a caregiver to a family member.

As much as that gave me a good slap back into reality, it showed me just how important mentors, sisters (or brothers, blood or not), and great friends are.

Far too long, I’ve only scratched the surface of relationships in general.  I enjoyed the fact that “no one knew me” but I hated it at the same time.  I’m an Aquarius…I know that means something to someone…

Proverbs 27:17 says Iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend

Countenance is defined by Merriam-Webster as: a) look, expression b) mental composure, c) calm expression

So basically mentors, best friend, and fam have a long standing pass to say, “You need to fix your crown”.

I understand that pride can sometimes get in the way.  It sure did with me!  For years. But I thank God that I see the other side of it.

Now this is absolutely NOT your permission slip to go tell someone that thing you’ve been meaning to tell them about themselves for years.  Stop it!!

This is a petition for you to pray.  To check your heart on the matter.  To speak in love.  To affirm when needed but to give a good ‘pinch’ when you see them getting off track.

If you can, be a mentor. It’s needed.  If you’re a brother or sister, give tough love.  If you’re a friend, be a real one.

That’s it for today!

I love you!!

Crys